
Remarkable…

Remarkable…


“Everything that occurs in our confused mind we can regard as the path. Everything is workable.
If we find ourselves in what seems like a rotten or painful situation and we think, “Well, how is this enlightenment?” we can just remember this notion of the path, that what seems undesirable in our lives doesn’t have to put us to sleep. What seems undesirable in our lives doesn’t have to trigger habitual reactions. We can let it show us where we’re at and let it remind us that the teachings encourage precision and gentleness, with loving-kindness toward every moment. When we live this way, we feel frequently—maybe continuously—at a crossroads, never knowing what’s ahead.
It’s an insecure way to live. We often find ourselves in the middle of a dilemma—what should I do about the fact that somebody is angry with me? What should I do about the fact that I’m angry with somebody? Basically, the instruction is **not to try to solve the problem but instead to use it as a question about how to let this very situation wake us up further** rather than lull us into ignorance. We can use a difficult situation to encourage ourselves to take a leap, to step out into that ambiguity.
This teaching applies to even the most horrendous situations life can dish out. Jean-Paul Sartre said that there are two ways to go to the gas chamber, free or not free. This is our choice in every moment. Do we relate to our circumstances with bitterness or with openness?
That is why it can be said that whatever occurs can be regarded as the path and that all things, not just some things, are workable. This teaching is a fearless proclamation of what’s possible for ordinary people like you and me.”
Pema Chodron, When Things Fall Apart

“Hey, Mr. Bluejay
Everybody’s ready to party…”

I had my last session of PT last week, and I’m grieving the loss of that soft place to fall. Ultimately, after our helpers have helped us back up, “the one love that gets [us] so high [we]’ve no fear at all” is the compassion we have for ourselves. Sing it with Sarah & me – directly into the mirror.

Den of Positivity, 11 months PO:
I did ten whole minutes on the elliptical today. There was a lot of huffing & puffing & sweating. Which was before I got on the machine.
Has anyone successfully gone bowling since surgery? I’m nearly 11 months PO and have done lunges at the gym with just body weight, but not holding a heavy ball wearing slippery shoes on a wooden floor. The more I describe it the more I think I should sit this one out. Thoughts? Experiences?

Yes, I will go for a walk this morning.

Sweet Potato Elf returneth.

When, in an evening, your children collaborate instead of fight, and the house is quiet. And the gates of heaven open, and angels sing…