7/10/21: Sometimes, David Whyte

SOMETIMES, by David Whyte

Sometimes
if you move carefully
through the forest,
breathing
like the ones
in the old stories,
who could cross
a shimmering bed of leaves
without a sound,
you come to a place
whose only task
is to trouble you
with tiny
but frightening requests,
conceived out of nowhere
but in this place
beginning to lead everywhere.
Requests to stop what
you are doing right now,
and
to stop what you
are becoming
while you do it,
questions
that can make
or unmake
a life,
questions
that have patiently
waited for you,
questions
that have no right
to go away.

from Everything is Waiting for You

5/28/21: They/Them

Yes, it takes getting used to 
using “they” and “them” 
to refer to Demi Levato 
or another person who 
identifies as non-binary. 
Yes, the English Lit. scholar 
in me wrestles with it. But 
it’s not a hard thing to do. 
A hard thing to do 
is grow up in a world 
that doesn’t reflect 
your personal truth 
through its media 
and language. 
A hard thing to do 
is live in a world 
that tells you in both 
subtle and blatant, 
sometimes life-ending ways 
that you are less than human 
because of the skin you’re in. 
Quit rolling your eyes
and try it. When you forget to, 
say oops and sorry. 
It’s okay to feel uncomfortable. 
What if the bothersome work it takes
makes the world a better place 
for you, too? 
And take a closer look
at those feelings 
their request 
is bringing up in you, 
because your reaction 
is not about THEM, 
it’s about YOU.